“If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life [in the sense of indifference to or relative disregard for them in comparison with his attitude toward God]—he cannot be My disciple.
Your Family and Friends Aren't Flawless
If you want great change, from where you are now to where you want to be, you have to be willing to make sacrafices and educate yourself so that you know how. Even Jesus separated himself from his disciples (For forty days), and he only knew the guys for 3 years.
You can’t afford take advice from people you don’t want to be like.